this post is not (yes not) to be interpreted as a "look at me" or "woe is me" or anything along those lines.
don't even go there.
this post comes from a conversation with one of my friends & my stream of thoughts from our discussion.
we got on the topic of what classes we were taking and how many credit hours etc.
i told him the classes i was taking and that it equaled 12 credit hours.
he kinda chuckled and said, "oh the bare minimum huh?"
me, being the un-confrontational person i am, and one to not take things offensively or read into things, just kinda chuckled with him and replied, "yeah, i know what i can handle and 12 is about it. *chuckle chuckle'"
note: i tried taking 15 my first spring semester of college & i about died. hence, sticking with my usual 12-13 ish.
second note: i know he didn't mean to be derogatory by any means.
however, it kinda bothered me -- that comment of his: "oh the bare minimum huh?"
um....
who is qualified to make a comment such as that about my life and schedule?
not you,
not he,
not the stranger across the street.
me.
that is the only person.
i know the load that i can bare while still staying somewhat sane.
especially where i have a high demanding church calling which requires lots of imagination, creativity, planning, time, project managing, etc.
with my job i work nearly 30 hours a week,
volunteer at an assisted living facility for one of my classes and for personal experience every week,
am required to attend x-amount of college functions for school credit,
do i even need to document the studying, reading, studying, memorizing, and the (now) restricted social life because of all of the above.
so yes, i proudly say to you Universe, that i PROUDLY am "only enrolled with 12 credit hours."
deal with it.
and if you have the audacity to say such a thing as this to anyone,
think again.